Should I Get Married on Maui, Oʻahu, Kauaʻi, or the Big Island?

Planning a wedding in Hawaiʻi starts with a big decision: which island feels most like you? Each one brings its own character—lush rainforests, striking coastlines, peaceful beaches—and all of them offer unforgettable backdrops for your day. Having planned weddings across all the major islands, we’ve come to appreciate how each one creates a beautifully unique experience.

Maui: Romantic, Refined, and Relaxed

Maui blends luxury and natural beauty effortlessly. With its golden beaches, five-star resorts, and seasoned local vendors, it's perfect for couples who want a destination wedding that feels elevated but never fussy. West Maui and Wailea offer stunning oceanfront views and that dreamy golden-hour glow.

Best for couples who: Want a romantic setting with curated guest experiences and breathtaking sunsets.

Wedding venues we love on Maui: Hotel Wailea, Olowalu Plantation House, Four Seasons Resort Maui at Wailea, The Ritz-Carlton Kapalua, Andaz Maui, Sugar Beach Events

We loved this Maui wedding! Find the highlights here.




Oʻahu: Lively, Accessible, and Full of Variety

Oʻahu is the most accessible island, especially for guests flying in from the mainland. But beyond Honolulu, there’s so much to explore: from the laid-back surf towns of the North Shore to the dramatic mountain views of the east side. You’ll find an incredible range of venues, all close to great food, culture, and adventure.

Best for couples who: Want a dynamic setting with easy travel, diverse scenery, and lots for guests to enjoy–from the best foodie finds to iconic beaches.

Wedding venues we love on Oʻahu: Kualoa Ranch, Lanikuhonua, The Royal Hawaiian, Waialua Valley Farms, Dillingham Ranch

Check out all the details from this O'ahu celebration here.



Kauaʻi: Peaceful, Lush, and Deeply Scenic

Kauaʻi feels like an escape in every sense. Known as the Garden Isle, it’s home to dramatic cliffs, dense forests, and quiet beaches. It’s a place where the pace slows down, and weddings feel intimate and grounded. If you're dreaming of a celebration that’s close to nature, this might be the place.

Best for couples who: Are drawn to nature, simplicity, and a sense of serenity.

Wedding venues we love on Kauaʻi: 1Hotel Hanalei Bay, Na ʻAina Kai Botanical Gardens

Want to see more? Check out this Kauaʻi wedding we loved.


The Big Island: Vast, Raw, and Striking

The Big Island brings together black lava fields, lush rainforests, and even snow-capped mountains—all in one place. It’s ideal for couples looking for a dramatic, less-traveled setting. The island’s scale gives a sense of space and grounding that’s perfect for celebrations with impact.

Best for couples who: Want something different—spacious, elemental, and full of contrast. From hill top ranch vibes to sprawling resorts fronting black sand beaches.

Wedding venues we love on the Big Island: Kona Village Resort, Four Seasons Resort Hualālai, Anna Ranch Heritage Center, Kahua Ranch, Kona Salt Farms

Check out more details from this Big Island celebration here



Lānaʻi: Private, Elegant, and Tranquil

Lānaʻi is quiet, luxurious, and intentionally off the beaten path. With just a handful of accommodations, including the world-class Four Seasons, it’s an island where your guests can truly unplug. Weddings here feel intimate, tailored, and serene.

Best for couples who: Want total privacy, exceptional service, and a refined atmosphere.

Wedding venue we love on Lānaʻi: Four Seasons Resort Lānaʻi.



A Few Final Thoughts:

We think thereʻs no wrong choice here—each island is beautiful in its own way. The magic lies in finding the one that speaks to your relationship, your pace, and your vision. Whether you're planning a beach front ceremony, a black-tie dinner under the palms, or a full and intimate wedding weekend with your favorite people, we're here to help you bring it all together.

Ready to find your island? Let’s talk.